Cheating is a choice not a mistake

 When you start dating most will have a mask on, you don’t get to see the real person because they hide themselves. 

If you’ve read the “Honeymoon Effect” by Dr Bruce Lipton you’ll know what I mean 

However you’ll start seeing “Red Flags” you know when you sit their questioning things  when you start questioning it’s because your nervous system is picking up vibes that don’t feel right… your body picks up on the vibrations.

Things don’t add up, ACTIONS speak LOUDER than WORDS… and then you have to look at the fact we often make a person out to be someone they're not… I mean we can make up in our own heads they are our dream partner 

We often dismiss the red flags  because it’s something we really want in our lives, this causes more pain later on. 

We all deal with every situation in the best way we know how and the best way we can. So we must not be too harsh on ourselves.

The best way to deal with a toxic person or situation is to turn around and walk away. As the saying goes... Never wrestle with a pig. You’ll both get dirty, but the pig will enjoy it...

A toxic relationship is one that makes you feel unsupported, misunderstood, demeaned, or attacked. On a basic level, any relationship that makes you feel worse rather than better can become toxic over time. Toxic relationships can exist in just about any context, from the playground to the boardroom to the bedroom.

However, if you can’t walk away. Awareness of what is in front of you and the knowledge on how to deal with it is essential.The truth is everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for. So educate yourselves.